Calling It Quits

The Swinging Lifestyle is a loosely organized group of couples that enjoy adventurous sexual fun. There is no national organization of Swingers. We have no President, no Board of Directors, no Swinger Pride Parade.

There is not one, unifying entity on a national or international level that every couple can point to that says this is what THE Lifestyle is all about.  There is only A Lifestyle. Every couple decides how far and frequently they want to dip their toes in the hot tub. The couples are “members” of THE Lifestyle only via their choice to participate in A Lifestyle they have defined within their own comfort levels.

Most couples that I know would put the brakes on THE Lifestyle if their partner wanted to take a break or completely quit. Isn’t this the only healthy option?

Tags: Lifestyle ~ Quit

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Party of Four, Your Table is Ready

So you’ve chatted with them online, exchanged photos and maybe had a few phone conversations.  It has taken weeks or maybe months to arrange dinner but the night has finally arrived.  (If you just read that last sentence and thought to yourself, “weeks? months?  Hell, I can arrange a dinner date in 10 minutes!” Please continue reading but send this author your phone number, we should do lunch.

Once you are all seated pay special attention to how your two hotties treat the wait staff.  I think it goes without saying that a couple that has agreed to meet you will probably (hopefully?) bend over backwards to impress you.  But there is always that one guy or girl, who no matter how hard the wait staff tries, will never be happy.  If the waiter can’t please them at the dinner table, you might have the same trouble in bed.

Tags: first date ~ Lifestyle

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